This is not a random rant to an ex-boyfriend.  I’m still committed to completing this 30-day writing challenge.  Today’s topic is the Things I Want To Say To An Ex for #5 on the list.

This is not to one specific ex.  But, surprisingly to a couple who had the same issue.

I don’t give a shit if someone called you saying they saw me walking down the street with some other guy.  I have friends who are also males!  If you want to believe something else went down, then that’s your prerogative.  But, you are with me because I’m an honest, loyal, kind, and a friendly person amongst many other amazing things that make me me.  Those same attributes you love about me and have you wanting to spend time with me are some of the same reasons you are so insecure.  Friendly means exactly that.  Friendly.  If people interpret that as flirty then both they and you are interpreting it wrong.

I’ve been cheated on before.  Totally blind sided.  I would never want to do that to someone.  Also, that’s just low down and two-faced.  I am not that kind of person.  I don’t have it in me.  So, trust that if we are in a relationship, you are the only one for me.  I’ll break up with you before I do anything else with anyone else.

And you’re damn right I’m all heated just because you ‘asked’.  You are questioning my integrity!  Don’t come to me with this bullshit.  Go have a conversation with the guy who’s telling you all this.  Because this conversation between you and me are done.  Just like this relationship

Bye Felicia!

I find it funny the same personality traits that draw people to me are sometimes the same ones they want me to dull or change.  I will keep my light burning bright.  It flickers on weaker days, but the fire still burns within.

Side note:  Anyone get the “Bye Felicia” reference?