I’m not sure you would categorize it as worrying, but with most things I think of tons of contingency plans with every outing everyday.  Even just going out to eat I have a list in my head as my husband waits for me at the door.  For him when it’s time to go, he puts … Continue reading →

People that don’t know me think I’m shy. People that do know me wish I were. – Unknown It’s not that I’m antisocial. I just don’t like you. – Unknown Good Girls are only Bad girls who did not get caught!! – Ember Bauch Poop Fuck Nailed it! That’s what s/he said Continue reading →

This topic is easy.  I miss my mom. I miss her unconditional love, smile, laugh, understanding, support, cooking, happiness, empathy, how she would leave me voice messages that always started with “(my chinese name), I’m your mother. (message). ok?  bye”, how she would always ask how everyone else is doing, how she would go grocery shopping … Continue reading →

When I first finished university, I would say, I have two degrees.  Then if they tried to sum it up and say ‘oh, you double majored’, I would correct them.  Now, I just say “sure”. It was advanced at the time to have two degrees, but I should have taken it further.  To get a masters … Continue reading →

My future.  I must admit, I don’t plan that far ahead.  I have to factor in realities and it’s not always pretty.  My dad is older.  Franklin’s health is not great.  Our bank account could use a couple more bucks.  For today, I have my dad and Franklin with me, and we have enough in … Continue reading →

I’m a few days behind, but trying to catch up.  You would think this would be easy.  Who doesn’t want stuff, much less want stuff badly.  I admit, I cheated a bit and asked someone to list 3 things they lusted after.  We did not want the same things, but she did switch my mind to … Continue reading →